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Shirley Mae Jones, age 80, passed away on May 2, 2026.Born in Michigan, Shirley was a resident of Dayton for 46 years and was of the Baptist faith. She was a strong woman—a true warrior—who carried a smile that touched everyone around her. Shirley found joy in sewing and creating quilts, leaving behind handmade treasures for those she loved. She also had a deep love for animals and enjoyed spending time fishing.
She was preceded in death by her parents, Fredrick Bender and Wanetta (Dolly) Mae Bender; her brother, Robert A. Bender; and her sister, Evelyn Wolf.
Shirley is survived by her children: Melinda Phillips; Carrie Smith (Vern); Traci Knepper (Rob); Tammy Morris (Cory); and Claude Jerry Hickman (Jennifer). She is also survived by her sisters: Linda Bender, Susie Bailey, Betty Warner, and Dale Ripphinger; along with 17 grandchildren, 23 great-grandchildren and several nieces and nephews.
No services are scheduled at this time.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Rhea County Animal Shelter, 9118 Back Valley Road, Evensville, TN 37332.
Shirley will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered by all who knew her.
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